Your view on yourself:
You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.

The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:
You are not looking merely for a girl/boyfriend - you are looking for your life partner. Perhaps you should be more open-minded about who you spend time with. The person you are looking for might hide their charm under their exterior.

Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.

The seriousness of your love:
You like to flirt and behave seductively. The opposite sex finds this very attractive, and that's why you'll always have admirers hanging off your arms. But how serious are you about choosing someone to be in a relationship with?

Your views on education:
Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.

The right job for you:
You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.

How do you view success:
You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don't succeed. Don't give up when you haven't yet even started! Be courageous.

What are you most afraid of:
You are afraid of having no one to rely on in times of trouble. You don't ever want to be unable to take care of yourself. Independence is important to you.

Who is your true self:
You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.


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And when I lose my way, I close my eyes and she has found me


Quote of the Day: I Want to Believe -X-Files

Alright Jian Wei, have been busy recently so lacking in updates... Here ya goes..

My heartiest congratulations to Temasek Polytechnic Band for Gold in National Band Competition!!

This makes me reflect back to those times whereby I am a part of the big family. the familt that bonds by music, the family that bonds by grittinf our teeth real tight in time of crisis. Those were the Days of my Life man.. I really kinda missed them and i actually feel paiseh to go back... Its like the personnel change is simply too great.. I can imagine the "WTF??!!!" kind of face of the members the moment I pushed open the door.

hahaha.. Said something so damn philosophical today.. "Separation is inevitable in life. It's just like death. You can't prevent it, you can only be ready for it" So inky (translate to chinese) right? No, I did not lie about the fact that I do not have a girlfriend. No, this is not about me breaking up with my girlfriend when in the 1st place, I do not have 1. What sparked this light? Simple, I had a good friend (more like brothers) in TP Band. we hung out, crapped, practiced, and laughed together. Along came many commitments and the distance between us lengthened.. NO, this is not about Brokeback Mountain either, I'm Straight as a 180 degrees line. When i was catching up with a fellow bandy (band member) she asked me what happened between us.. this got me thinking.. Yeah.. thoughout our lifespan on Earth, we many make friends with up to 150,000 different individuals.. yet only a mere 10% of it can make it to the 5th year of friendship and only 1 can open the lock in our hearts and the key that we hold from the past would finally found its lock.. I wonder where's the lock for the key that I'm holding..


Without Her, I feel Her arms around me


Quote of the Day: Separation is inevitable in Life. It's Just like Dying. You can't Prevent it, You can only be Prepared for it. -Kenny

How true..

"The true measure of a Hero isn't the size of his strength, but the size of his heart". This applies to Us, normal people (not Heroes) as Well!! I may ask, whats the value of a person? Is it judged by how much he has created? How much he left behind? Well.. My personal answer is "It is judged by how he live his life" He can waste away his entire life by doing something that he hates, or really find where he belongs. Hercules does not belong in the normal crowd until he learnt to control his powers. The normal crowd do not belong in the vinicity of Hercules until they learnt how to appreciate his presence.

Similarly, One does not belong to another person until he finds the person that completes his circle. I always believe in the concept of Duality. Things are always created in Pairs.. Just like Positive and Negative, Yin and Yang, Protons and Electrons, Male and Female.. We will NEVER be happy till we find the other person that complements us Fully.


I walk with her till morning


Quote of the Day: People do Crazy things when they are in Love -Meg and Hercules

Ladies and Gentlemen, I officially pronounce myself to have won the Prestigious "IT'S OK!!!" Prize.. what's that prize, you may ask... Its a prize created by and given to Soo Zhen Hong Kenny.. for the "It's ok" spirit..

I know its normal for us, people in the service front-line, to constantly use the term "It's ok".. be it to customers, collegues or to events.. "It's ok" really does the job... You might be thinking that I am so proud to the extent that I start goving myself prizes.. but NO!!! recently something happened that makes me feel so..

I lost something that is close to my heart recently.. It came to me as a shock.. the loss of something important and dear usually let people feel the sense of remorse, loss, and pain.. Miraculosly, I felt NONE.. In fact, I feel that the "something" actually never did exist in my life.. This had me wondering that am I looking at life too easily and lightly and/or my feelings are getting numb.. Things that usually able to trigger off my temper seems to be losing that ability.. I begin to just think "It's ok"..

Strange isn't it?


All Alone


Quote of the Day: I have 3 Treasures. Guard and keep them. The 1st is Deep Love. The 2nd is Frugality. The 3rd is not to dare to be ahead of the world. Because of Deep Love, One is Courageous. Because of Frugality, One is Generous. Because of not daring to be ahead of the world, One becomes the Leader of the World. -Laozi, Dao De Jing

A llok at the previous post reveals that I haven't updated my blog for like almost a week.. hahaha.. might be due to the immense levels of adenosines building up in my system..

Nothing much happened recently.. but i caught a show: "10 Promises to my Dog".

From the title, it looks like a show about a dog.. Most people would find it a show about dogs.. in my opinion, it shows the reflection of life. the show had really displayed the attitude of life in humans.. how we

1) Get so focused in work that we neglect in those that are dear to us
2) Can be easily replaced by material objects
3) Do not respect the brittleness of life
4) Had to part with things or people in order to grow up
5) Only realise the immense value of something when its gone

Pretending She's beside me


Quote of the Day: He who knows much about others may be learned, but He who understand Himslef is more intelligent. He who controls others may be powerful, but He who has mastered himself is mightier still -Lao Zi, Dao De Jing

A search through my laptop reveals much forgottened songs.. but 1 of them pops out like a sore thumb: Les Miserables, concert band version.. this brought me back to the times in TP Band.. The suppers, the Throwing into Koi Ponds (thx baldwin..) the highly animated combines... makes me feeli like going back.. but then again, looking back throught the memories only provides one with more things to think of.. i strongly feels that 1 must think only of tomorrow in order to progress.. Albus Dumbledore has said: "Men has wasted lives in front of the Mirror of Erised" The Mirror of Erised is actually Desire spelled backwards.. the looking back in the memories only makes us wanting to go back and change the things that turn out bad to what we want (desire) it to be.. by continuously sarting into this desire, we will only waste lives... We can only do what History wants us to learn.. To Learn from Mistakes and Never repeat them.. Life is too valuable to be wasted

On My Own


Quote of the Day: A herd of buffalos can only travel as fast as the slowest buffalo can travel. A team can only play as well as the weakest player can play. Spend more time trying to hone the skills of the weakest playing instead of commenting how well the best player can play. -Kenny